Wow it’s been quite a while since I’ve written! As most of you already know, there’s constant elevated changes around us (inflation)! My hope is that many of you will be able to meet your needs in new ways, strategize, and receive increase where it’s needed most.
With that being said here’s today’s topic.
When you allow people to make more withdrawals than deposits in your life you become out of balance and in the negative. Know when to close the account!
We’re in that time of year where a lot of people are making resolutions for the upcoming year. I’d like to know have any of you made any assessments of your current relationships & environment? Well, I’ve been wanting to talk about this for about 8 years and it just wasn’t the right time until now. I had to go through a major transition personally to walk away from relationships that weren’t meaningful and make tough decisions that may have potentially hurt others feelings. That’s not my issue.
You see we can’t keep allowing certain toxic individuals to emotionally drain us. Have you ever found yourself maintaining someone’s dysfunction? Your always depositing into others, yet your well always runs dry. It’s time to make adjustments and don’t wait until the New Year to do it. You can start now!
I’ve always been a depositor with others, but never really received reciprocation relationally. I kept coming up short with way more withdrawals than I can count. Again, after going through eight years of an internal metamorphosis, I’ve been liberated in letting go! Sometimes we hold on for fear of what others might think of our decision making. What’s most important though is our mental well-being. I don’t know about you, but I’m not carrying any more false responsibilities that lead to the account of my life being out of balance = NEGATIVE!
So, what are your plans for 2023?
Remember, when you allow people to make more withdrawals than deposits in your life you become out of balance and in the negative. Know when to close the account!
“Come to me all of you who are tired from the heavy burden you have been forced to carry. I will give you rest.”
Matthew 11:28 ERV
Writing From The Wall Of My Heart 
I enjoyed reading this. In the past, I would feel guilty about letting go. I would think to myself, “What if they do not have anyone else?” Reciprocation was non-existent and I often felt used. It is not always easy to say yes to yourself and your wellbeing. You pray nothing but the best for them and often you have to choose to love from a distance.
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